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Marriage can be tough! Two people, joined together, but sometimes feeling like enemies. Sometimes, couples find themselves continually hurting each other, miss each other’s needs, and leave each other angry, resentful, tired, empty, exhausted, and unfulfilled.

Study after study is showing the damaging effects of stress. And nowhere is there more stress than in an unhappy marriage! We stand in front of family and friends and make a promise to stay together. Some people decide to break that promise.  Others struggle through.

In the end, there are really three options:  1.) Leaving things as they are, suffering through (continued unhappiness). 2.)  Give up and move on (separation and divorce). Or 3.) Discover the secret of transforming your relationship!  Neither 1.) nor 2.) are good options.

Instead, the only real option is 3.), transforming your marriage! But without the proper tools and understandings, transforming your marriage is difficult. How many times have you tried to make things different? How many books have you read, discussions have you had, thoughts and prayers you’ve entertained, all aimed at changing the relationship?

  At 17 years of marriage we separated. we didn't really want a divorce, but we knew something wasn't right with us. it took 8 months for us to come back together and in that time after reading your book, we learned that we had let life interfere with how we talked to each other. we talked 'at' each other without really listening to what was being said. we had to allow ourselves time to come to grips with the knowledge that we weren't the perfect couple we thought we were and even though we knew 'you can't read each others minds', we had somehow let that slip and allowed hurts to billed up, all the while wondering how the other couldn't tell something was wrong. we learned to listen to each other again and make sure that the other knows he/she is as important now as the day we married
  The e-book was really thought provoking. When I read it for the first time I really didn't know how to move on from the situation we had gotten into. It made me realize that the problems we were having could be solved.  In 2 years we've gone from being on the brink of breaking up to closer than ever. Not only did it make me look at my marriage from a different perspective - it changed the way I interacted with everyone around me. My husband, my 2 children and myself are calmer, more confident and happier than ever. Life is good again
  This course is designed not to be just a “fix.”  It is designed to transform your marriage.  This is not about “psychobabble,” or even being “touchy-feely.”  It is about giving you the tools and techniques to transform your marriage.

  So, we won’t be going on an “archaeology dig” of past hurts and pains. I think that gets too many couples bogged down and unable to move forward. In fact, that is my primary concern with marital therapy. You may go to an appointment in a good mood, but after an hour of thinking about all the hurts, you leave mad at each other.  Then you are supposed to go work it out!

  That is why the statistics on marital therapy are so dismal. Over 50% of couples who go to therapy end up divorced, and only 20% report any significant improvement.  Imagine going to a doctor who tells you he wants to perform a procedure on you. The mortality rate is over 50%, and only 20% of people experience any improvement in the problem.  Click Here!

• Paradigms, Perceptions, and Mindsets.  This is foundational. How you view each other and how you change that view are the beginnings of change. I’ll show you how. I’ll give you a new model that will help you understand your mate.
   
• Commitment.  When you got married, what did you sign up for? Learn about the hidden commitments you made, and how can you use this to literally save your marriage.
   
• Meeting Needs.  Marriages begin a downward spiral when we forget our own needs, and forget to meet the needs of our spouse. Claim your own needs, and learn how to discover your spouse’s needs.
   
• Being A Team.  Why is it that the one person we should see as our ally begins to be seen as the enemy? More importantly, we will look at how to become a team, and how this is transformational to a marriage.
   
• Identifying And Breaking Patterns.  We all get into ruts. Usually, they sneak up behind us, and before you know it, we are deeply entrenched, and don’t know how to get out. I’ll help you identify the destructive patterns and help you to change them.
   
• Communication.  Notice how far along we are. This is the 6th rubric.  Most put this as the first.  I disagree. Communication is important, but only after the other 5 rubrics are secure.  I’ll help you understand communication in a different way, and you will see why it is not the big issue, but how it can strengthen your marriage.  Learn how to fight fairly, and how to understand the outlook of your spouse.
   
• Anger, Anxiety, And Strong Emotions.  Your brain is part of the problem.  More specifically, your brain when it gets angry or anxious is the problem. Learn how to cope with the strong emotions, so that they bring you together rather than tear you apart.
   
• Building A Resilient Marriage. We will spend some time discussing how to be a “resilient couple,” how to bounce back from difficulties in life and between the two of you. Resilient couples will succeed in marriage, and I can show you how to increase your Couples Resilience Quotient.
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